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I hope writing out the before's helped a little

I got some of them, not sure if I've got them all. If you can still see any of them let us know!

Before: Before You Self-Harm write down the shadow that's hiding behind the urge. look at it. ask yourself: how will this situation or feeling change if i hurt myself? situation won't change. unfortunately I can't really do anyhting about 'the situation' which is part of the problem with how i'm fee...

i got it

no once it's in holding you won't be able to see it anymore. I don't know if this will work, but you can click on the 'print view' when you're in your place (it's to the left hand side near the top) and then use file, save as. I'm not 100% sure but I think that'd be an easy way to save it all as a b...

think i got it (it's quite early in the morning for me though so shout if i've missed something)

i'm really not techy but i suspect it's soemthing connected to the computer you're on if it's working from your phone adn otehr comps and the ip address isn't banned, maybe there's a firewall setting not agreeing with bus? (i can't be of any real help though i'm afraid becasue i'm just not good with...

we're not really sure what happened with the delete button, I think it's a techinical thing (of which i know very little) but people did have the ability to delete their posts for a while, - as long as no one else had posted after them, then they couldn't then some people could. kiwi's suggestion is...

feel free to write nutty comments on the spam reports, it's only us admins and mods that see it, it might brighten our spam splatting if there's something funny on there. (as an aside once in a fit of rage to someone that was spamming lots i wrote them a PM telling them to leave us alone (it never g...

i've never tried this becasue i just read around pretty much everywhere, but i think if you subscribe to forums, you'd get the new posts i nthe forums on your control panel? then you could just access the things you need form the control panel rather thanthe main board looking at new posts (but ther...

i just had a little play around. i *think* you can do this and it's no an admin only type power. when you look at the first post in a topic that you're interested in you should have an option that says 'bookmark topic' if you click onthis it adds to your bookmarks. then if you go to the user control...

After: Questions to Answer After A Slip slips are chances to learn. you figure out what stresses are still too hard for you and you can work on how you'll deal with them next time you run into them. so instead of beating yourself up, take action. what had happened just before? nothing, I'd had a goo...

sometimes i *really* wish you'd get off your high horse and stop acting like you know everyhting. i really thought that it'd be ok working with you but you proved me wrong. you two shouldn't spend time together becasue you're bad for each other, you get together adn you're poisonois about a system t...

I've made a really good start on my HUGE list of things to do

i got that one, someone else reported it too

i wish i could make *this* feel ok

my password is shorter than that so i'm not sure why yours has to be so long. i'll take it to the other admins and see if we can work out why

nty do you have other buttons? from prox's hunting around on the control panel it seems strange that you'd have managed to somehow keep the buttons for deleting but not the other ones (have you got 4 buttons in the corner) also, can you do it in other forums? or is it only here? basically the answer...

thanks for the heads up, i splatted them

mine are doing it too with my place notifactions