bus

Thanks - probably my boyfriend trying to erase his internet atcivities!

Just a quick question - I have it set so I am automatically logged in to BUS. Every week or so though I get asked to enter my username and password - is this something BUS does - only keep the auto log in for a set amount of time - or is it more likely to be someone deleting cookies on my computer o...

When I got my last lot of windows updates it changed all my fonts too - perhaps that is what happened?

Me also - I thought I was being weird and had changed the address in my favourites or something by mistake

Thank you for posting that - it's really useful for me

I've been having problems too. Often when I click reply I get an error message that the page can't load.

What do you think makes other people deserve support? What would you have to do, or who would you have to be to be worthy of support? Thanks for posting those questions - that's a really helpful way to look at it. I guess I would see people of deserving support - in this case because it is a specif...

How do you guys cope with feeling undeserving of support? I am due to start DBT in a few months. I'm fighting these conflicting feelings of wanting to try hard and resist SI urges etc but also being scared I am 'not sick enough' for the programme. I am 'in recovery' from anorexia and already I find ...

I would feel frightened - but it would be worth losing their friendship to keep them alive by getting them help if that's what it took. And it I felt I wasn't in a position to cope or it was making me unsafe I would tell someone who could help them.

I hate her. I can't help it and I don't think I should have to try. And I resent people who deny how selfish and wrapped up in her horrible talentless self she is.

And I hate myself for feeling like this.

Comments welcome via PM I pretend I am in recovery from anorexia and trying really hard but actually I am failing at my ED and not trying hard enough. I eat vicariously through others. I cause all my own illnesses. I have nothing to say to my CPN. I resent my therapist when she takes time off sick. ...

Does he understand how he hurt you before and accept it was wrong? People can change I don't believe 'Once a cheater always a cheater' but you know you need to find reasons/evidence to trust him again if you are going to. I know what it's like having the 'he's THE guy' feeling. But you'd be amazed h...

Yes and maybe start out slow just telling them something little you feel mostcomfortable with. You don't have to tell them anything you don't want or everything at once. Just saying you're feeling very bad can be enough to begin with.

I leaning to talk to my T a bit more about it but it's taken a while to get comfortable with that.

If you need help coping telling someone is a good idea especially if you have having su thoughts. Could you try listing all the pros and cons of telling your Mum or anyone else you might want to confide in? It might help makes things clearer for you.

Terrible but motivated to change

"usually when I feel I am letting everyone down and I talk to them about it, (I dont have many people in my life so I can do that) they tell me I am not letting them down." That's a really good point. the first thing is to think about if you have actually let people down, or if you are just feeling ...