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by Spidey
Sat Oct 07, 2006 6:27 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: bullying
Replies: 22
Views: 980

I was bullied a lot at school. And very badly. I don't talk about it any more because it's the past. I've forgiven them for what they have done and pretty much yes - kids are dumb, and they will be kids and sometimes bullying results from just the normal social pecking order, or because they don't u...
by Spidey
Fri Sep 29, 2006 1:04 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: hello folks
Replies: 2
Views: 126

hello folks

hello folks, this is your mod speaking, and we have reached an altitude of-- oh, wait. wrong introduction :) anyway i just wanted to say that i am here, and i am active - as active as i can be considering what i'm going to talk about below :) the reason you haven't seen hide nor hair of me lately is...
by Spidey
Fri Sep 29, 2006 12:53 pm
Forum: administrivia and technical support
Topic: t_k unable to get on...
Replies: 8
Views: 1023

today is the first time in 24 hours i've been able to access the board. i get the same things.
by Spidey
Thu Sep 28, 2006 12:02 am
Forum: coping
Topic: I'm proud of myself today because....
Replies: 1894
Views: 109423

I went to work.
by Spidey
Tue Sep 26, 2006 11:18 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: wellness recovery action plan
Replies: 4
Views: 199

excellent post!
by Spidey
Sun Sep 24, 2006 7:42 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: Things Left Unsaid - Version 3.0 *Language*
Replies: 4840
Views: 252658

When I told you that I would wait, I told you that I wouldn't wait forever.

Hurry up.

You are running out of time.
by Spidey
Sat Sep 23, 2006 11:10 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: Struggling with Coping skills,before SI
Replies: 5
Views: 176

what things make you happy? what things comfort you that you know you can write down? even if you can't write them down, is there a way you can describe them?

can you start from there?
by Spidey
Sat Sep 23, 2006 12:35 am
Forum: coping
Topic: how do you cope at night?
Replies: 9
Views: 394

i usually try to keep my brain active with an activity if i can't sleep. i'm one of those people who have to be constantly moving, so lying in bed waiting to sleep is not an option.

i usually watch dvd's, listen to music on my ipod, or read.
by Spidey
Mon Sep 18, 2006 2:30 am
Forum: coping
Topic: Place to cry
Replies: 2185
Views: 124796

:bawl: :bawl: :bawl:
by Spidey
Thu Sep 14, 2006 1:03 pm
Forum: administrivia and technical support
Topic: if you're an ombud
Replies: 27
Views: 2846

i went from being able to get in if i vamoosed cookies and rebooted t he browser to not being able to get in. at all. and it doesn't work on safari, either.
by Spidey
Thu Sep 07, 2006 11:55 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: Back-to-School Support
Replies: 93
Views: 3310

If you're in university and your depression / illness is documented by a doctor, go to your university's disability services center and talk to them and see if they're willing to help you. If you are having trouble concentrating, trying breaking up work times into small chunks. When I was having tro...
by Spidey
Thu Sep 07, 2006 11:45 pm
Forum: administrivia and technical support
Topic: Joe can't post
Replies: 14
Views: 1463

I get that a lot as well. The best thing to do is wait it out.
by Spidey
Thu Sep 07, 2006 11:42 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: Struggling not to Do any SI
Replies: 1
Views: 76

It's a struggle to not have tools; that I understand. Your strength and your SI-free time are awesome and admirable. I don't know how to solve your printing problem - I'm sorry. Is there another way you can reward / distract yourself from SI? Can you do something that's mentally challenging to get y...
by Spidey
Wed Aug 30, 2006 12:54 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: Back-to-School Support
Replies: 93
Views: 3310

this is sooo not ot :)

it's a grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrreeeeeeeeeeeeeat thread. excellent idea.
by Spidey
Sun Aug 27, 2006 11:08 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: Right now I feel...
Replies: 2081
Views: 86985

shit
by Spidey
Thu Aug 24, 2006 12:04 am
Forum: administrivia and technical support
Topic: Spammers
Replies: 12
Views: 1089

Yeah. There are a lot of spambots out there, and that's why a lot of sites now require you to do some sort of image verification (where you have to type the letter/number combination in the image) before you can sign up / register. It really sucks, but as far as I know, there's really no good way to...
by Spidey
Thu Aug 24, 2006 12:03 am
Forum: administrivia and technical support
Topic: comments and problems with the changes made during downtime
Replies: 18
Views: 1363

comments and problems with the changes made during downtime

The coping thread in question is located here: <a href="http://buslist.org/phpBB/viewtopic.php? ... 46">What's YOUR plan for when you can't get on BUS?</a>
by Spidey
Wed Aug 23, 2006 11:52 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: What's YOUR plan for when you can't get on BUS? [Read Please
Replies: 34
Views: 18127

What's YOUR plan for when you can't get on BUS? [Read Please

Sometimes due to circumstances beyond your control (or within your control) - you can't get on the board. Either because it goes down, the Internet screwed up, your computer screwed up or the board is down for general maintenance, you just can't get on. There are many bussers who rely on this board ...
by Spidey
Wed Aug 23, 2006 3:04 am
Forum: coping
Topic: stupid little happy things
Replies: 595
Views: 73037

SLEEP
by Spidey
Tue Aug 22, 2006 12:52 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: Impulsive SI vs. Deliberate SI
Replies: 9
Views: 482

or think about something that I've done that I label as "failure," I hit myself without even thinking about it. Almost like a reflex. yeah. i do this a lot, too. i got told that i made a mistake - a very simple one that all new people make - at work, and when i came home i smacked myself for it. it...