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by Spidey
Sun Mar 23, 2014 3:29 am
Forum: coping
Topic: Just One Victory - Coping With Substance Abuse Problems
Replies: 225
Views: 55019

Re: Just One Victory - Coping With Substance Abuse Problems

Do you or DH attend any kind of support meetings to help abstain from alcohol, like SMART Recovery, LifeRing, Save Our Sobriety or AA? All the groups I mentioned most likely have online meetings if you are not comfortable with face-to-face interaction right now...
by Spidey
Sat Mar 22, 2014 1:12 am
Forum: administrivia and technical support
Topic: Error message when trying to log in
Replies: 13
Views: 12549

Re: Error message when trying to log in

Glad site's back up! Last year a forum I was on suddenly shut down without warning by the owners who then proceeded to act like tyrants attacking and banning people for sometimes little or no provocation at all. I was a mess for a week until I discovered a NEW forum for the users of the same site. ...
by Spidey
Thu Mar 13, 2014 5:03 am
Forum: coping
Topic: Things Left Unsaid *LA* v. 6
Replies: 299
Views: 87716

Re: Things Left Unsaid *LA* v. 6

I wish it were him.
by Spidey
Sun Mar 02, 2014 7:29 am
Forum: coping
Topic: Just One Victory - Coping With Substance Abuse Problems
Replies: 225
Views: 55019

Re: Just One Victory - Coping With Substance Abuse Problems

:( Jamas, do you think it was because of the meds, or the just feeling crappy?
by Spidey
Sun Mar 02, 2014 7:23 am
Forum: coping
Topic: What song describes how you're feeling?
Replies: 69
Views: 37940

Re: What song describes how you're feeling?

Janis Joplin - Maybe
by Spidey
Sat Feb 22, 2014 7:23 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: Just One Victory - Coping With Substance Abuse Problems
Replies: 225
Views: 55019

Re: Just One Victory - Coping With Substance Abuse Problems

Congrats on 18 months! :disco:
by Spidey
Wed Jan 22, 2014 8:04 am
Forum: coping
Topic: Things Left Unsaid *LA* v. 6
Replies: 299
Views: 87716

Re: Things Left Unsaid *LA* v. 6

i am trying to carry this burden for you in hopes that it will alleviate my own. But it hurts, every day, it hurts, more and more. I don't want to say this to you because I don't want to hurt you, or make you cry any more, but I feel empty and it hurts. I try to keep a brave and factual, almost tact...
by Spidey
Sat Jan 04, 2014 6:46 am
Forum: coping
Topic: Things Left Unsaid *LA* v. 6
Replies: 299
Views: 87716

Re: Things Left Unsaid *LA* v. 6

I wish I knew how to take your pain away. I know that you love him, that he meant the world to you, that he was your boy. You keep blaming yourself, saying if you only spent more time with him, fed him this, didn't feed him that, gave him this, didn't give him that, that he'd be here longer. Everyon...
by Spidey
Thu Dec 26, 2013 8:16 am
Forum: coping
Topic: Things Left Unsaid *LA* v. 6
Replies: 299
Views: 87716

Re: Things Left Unsaid *LA* v. 6

NO. NO. NO. NO. NO.
by Spidey
Thu Dec 26, 2013 5:55 am
Forum: coping
Topic: What song describes how you're feeling?
Replies: 69
Views: 37940

Re: What song describes how you're feeling?

Home - Phillip Phillips
by Spidey
Sat Dec 14, 2013 3:42 pm
Forum: administrivia and technical support
Topic: Board Clean-Up?
Replies: 10
Views: 11120

Re: Board Clean-Up?

i think sending some old threads to an archive database has been done before, but i don't know the reason why it was done or what benefit it might have. Yes; it has been done. The reason why was because deb was upgrading to a new version of phpBB and the database was absolutely MASSIVE, so she arch...
by Spidey
Wed Nov 27, 2013 8:08 am
Forum: administrivia and technical support
Topic: IMPORTANT - spam settings changing
Replies: 26
Views: 21643

Re: IMPORTANT - spam settings changing

mian wrote:Slight correction: I'm ALWAYS awesome! ;-)

(and I know it's frustrating.)
:D :)
by Spidey
Wed Nov 27, 2013 7:40 am
Forum: administrivia and technical support
Topic: IMPORTANT - spam settings changing
Replies: 26
Views: 21643

Re: IMPORTANT - spam settings changing

I think that people would like to have the busmail address working because some board settings are tied to it. If you can't log in, the board says "contact the administrators here" and there is no way for us to change that. I have tried to float the information post around the boards and updated th...
by Spidey
Sat Nov 23, 2013 7:20 am
Forum: administrivia and technical support
Topic: IMPORTANT - spam settings changing
Replies: 26
Views: 21643

Re: IMPORTANT - spam settings changing

Yeah, BBCode does cut upon robots ability to post disturbing images - I hear ya there :) With the understanding that Deb has taken a leave of absence (awesome!) - if there's anything that is MOST important in my eyes, it is that the admins email at busmail.org be restored, given its history and lega...
by Spidey
Thu Nov 21, 2013 8:34 am
Forum: administrivia and technical support
Topic: The spam on this board is OUT OF CONTROL.
Replies: 29
Views: 22351

Re: IMPORTANT: Bus admins' e-mail address not working

Why has this not been fixed?
by Spidey
Thu Nov 21, 2013 8:32 am
Forum: administrivia and technical support
Topic: IMPORTANT - spam settings changing
Replies: 26
Views: 21643

Re: IMPORTANT - spam settings changing

HTML being broken I am not sure that I understand what you mean - can you elaborate? You can't use HTML in signatures anymore. While I'm very well familiar with BBCode and don't mind using it, the option of HTML in signatures did absolutely nothing to harm the board. Admin busmail address no longer...
by Spidey
Thu Nov 21, 2013 7:08 am
Forum: coping
Topic: What's your current 'smiley'?
Replies: 88
Views: 11786

Re: What's your current 'smiley'?

:oconf: :bsad:
by Spidey
Thu Nov 21, 2013 7:07 am
Forum: coping
Topic: Right now I feel... Version 3.0
Replies: 1089
Views: 144814

Re: Right now I feel... Version 3.0

sad, heartbroken, like i'm overreacting
by Spidey
Thu Nov 21, 2013 6:15 am
Forum: administrivia and technical support
Topic: IMPORTANT - spam settings changing
Replies: 26
Views: 21643

Re: IMPORTANT - spam settings changing

  • HTML being broken

    Custom avatars no longer available

    Admin busmail address no longer working

    What happened to about, oh, half the smilies (not important but still relevant

    Inability to delete posts in place, which was always available to everyone regardless of staff or not
by Spidey
Thu Nov 21, 2013 1:35 am
Forum: administrivia and technical support
Topic: IMPORTANT - spam settings changing
Replies: 26
Views: 21643

Re: IMPORTANT - spam settings changing

With that, can we get the rest of the board issues fixed?