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by Spidey
Sun Jul 27, 2014 2:38 am
Forum: coping
Topic: Looking for tips
Replies: 5
Views: 670

Re: Looking for tips

Welcome to BUS! Have a welcome :moo:! (It's tradition!) Besides distractions/games, try answering the before/and after questions? It will give you some time to think about the who/what/where/when/why and contemplate what is taking you to that point and what you can do to avoid SI. We also have a for...
by Spidey
Thu Jul 17, 2014 7:16 am
Forum: coping
Topic: Just One Victory - Coping With Substance Abuse Problems
Replies: 225
Views: 54987

Re: Just One Victory - Coping With Substance Abuse Problems

Hey folks: I've noticed that there's not been many replies to this thread lately, so I figured I'd post here to "liven" it up a notch :) Anyway: How are you doing? Where are you at with regards to your sobriety? Remember: It doesn't matter what tool you use to get sober/clean, as long as it WORKS fo...
by Spidey
Thu Jul 17, 2014 6:44 am
Forum: coping
Topic: The best feelings in the world are...
Replies: 26
Views: 13022

Re: The best feelings in the world are...

Right now, for me, relief.
by Spidey
Wed Jul 16, 2014 6:51 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: Right now I feel... Version 3.0
Replies: 1089
Views: 144757

Re: Right now I feel... Version 3.0

Terrified
by Spidey
Wed Jul 16, 2014 9:23 am
Forum: coping
Topic: Things Left Unsaid *LA* v. 6
Replies: 299
Views: 87693

Re: Things Left Unsaid *LA* v. 6

You need to know that the answers that you give me tonight are extremely important to my healing and that sugarcoating will not do either of us any good. Nothing I say will be meant as an insult. I just want to know. That's all I want is to just know what was going on in the weeks leading up to her ...
by Spidey
Wed Jul 16, 2014 9:18 am
Forum: coping
Topic: I'm proud of myself today because...
Replies: 39
Views: 20401

Re: I'm proud of myself today because...

I took care of myself.
by Spidey
Wed Jul 16, 2014 9:17 am
Forum: coping
Topic: Right now I feel... Version 3.0
Replies: 1089
Views: 144757

Re: Right now I feel... Version 3.0

Apprehensive
by Spidey
Mon Jul 14, 2014 7:29 am
Forum: coping
Topic: Things Left Unsaid *LA* v. 6
Replies: 299
Views: 87693

Re: Things Left Unsaid *LA* v. 6

10 months today. oh grey man i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. i miss you. my smoke tetsuya...
by Spidey
Sat Jul 12, 2014 10:12 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: I'm proud of myself today because...
Replies: 39
Views: 20401

Re: I'm proud of myself today because...

As much as I want to, I have not SI'ed.
by Spidey
Sat Jul 12, 2014 10:09 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: Right now I feel... Version 3.0
Replies: 1089
Views: 144757

Re: Right now I feel... Version 3.0

confused, shaken, anxious
by Spidey
Wed Jul 09, 2014 5:20 am
Forum: coping
Topic: Things Left Unsaid *LA* v. 6
Replies: 299
Views: 87693

Re: Things Left Unsaid *LA* v. 6

You are fucking stupid. Every time I think you could not be more fucking retarded you create a new event horizon of HURR DURR RETARD. This time, it's an event horizon that could be really fucking expensive because you refuse to remember when certain (VERY IMPORTANT) things are told to you. I wish I ...
by Spidey
Sun Jul 06, 2014 5:59 am
Forum: coping
Topic: Things Left Unsaid *LA* v. 6
Replies: 299
Views: 87693

Re: Things Left Unsaid *LA* v. 6

I found what would be for us the awesomest place on the planet. But you're not here to go with me.
by Spidey
Mon Jun 09, 2014 11:48 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: Things Left Unsaid *LA* v. 6
Replies: 299
Views: 87693

Re: Things Left Unsaid *LA* v. 6

Your behaviour is completely unprofessional. Completely. You can't jerk people around and leave them in limbo like this. You really can't. I've waited a MONTH to get an answer and you just keep putting me off. "I don't know, I'll tell you in a few weeks" is no longer acceptable. You either tell me t...
by Spidey
Mon Jun 09, 2014 6:29 am
Forum: coping
Topic: Things Left Unsaid *LA* v. 6
Replies: 299
Views: 87693

Re: Things Left Unsaid *LA* v. 6

i shouldn't look at pictures of smoke while listening to vale decem. i really shouldn't.
by Spidey
Mon May 05, 2014 5:13 am
Forum: coping
Topic: Things Left Unsaid *LA* v. 6
Replies: 299
Views: 87693

Re: Things Left Unsaid *LA* v. 6

i want my boy back.
by Spidey
Mon May 05, 2014 5:07 am
Forum: coping
Topic: What song describes how you're feeling?
Replies: 69
Views: 37936

Re: What song describes how you're feeling?

Let Her Go - Passenger
by Spidey
Thu Apr 24, 2014 5:14 am
Forum: administrivia and technical support
Topic: The spam on this board is OUT OF CONTROL.
Replies: 29
Views: 22350

Re: The spam on this board is OUT OF CONTROL.

I am no longer staff, but anti-spam implementation tactics take some time, especially if modifications to the board software have to be made.

All things in time.
by Spidey
Sat Apr 12, 2014 5:52 am
Forum: coping
Topic: Things Left Unsaid *LA* v. 6
Replies: 299
Views: 87693

Re: Things Left Unsaid *LA* v. 6

Dear Parent in the Parking Lot: You're right. I'm not a parent. I don't know what it's like to have children of my own, especially several of them. But when I notice one of them run off into the middle of a very busy parking lot, I'm going to call your attention to it. Not because I'm a dick, but be...
by Spidey
Sun Mar 23, 2014 3:32 am
Forum: coping
Topic: What song describes how you're feeling?
Replies: 69
Views: 37936

Re: What song describes how you're feeling?

These tears I've cried I've cried 1000 oceans And if it seems I'm floating in the darkness Well, I can't believe that I would keep Keep you from flying And I would cry 1000 more If that's what it takes To sail you home Sail you home Sail you home I'm aware what the rules are But you know that I will...