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by gerald
Sat Aug 05, 2006 8:14 pm
Forum: administrivia and technical support
Topic: Incredibly slow..
Replies: 13
Views: 1060

I don't know anything about php, but I'm on another php board which does this so I assume it's possible .... I know a number of boards that have significantly speeded up by only having the software remember when the last time you were on the board was instead of remembering every single thread and w...
by gerald
Wed Mar 08, 2006 3:32 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: Parents Getting Divorced
Replies: 3
Views: 121

I guess the door has been closed on your attempt to still be your stepmother's friend. People do that. In the midst of a messy breakup, they vent to other people. If you can stay out of it, refuse to say anything bad about the other person (and if asked reiterate that you are still pursuing a relati...
by gerald
Thu Mar 02, 2006 7:03 am
Forum: coping
Topic: Spring Break
Replies: 5
Views: 216

I would imagine that if they say you need a utility knife, you need a utility knife. It's problematic for a work crew to have tools that everyone will need at some time or other that are floating around. I wonder whether it would help to decorate the knife (I know they're small) in some way so that ...
by gerald
Thu Feb 02, 2006 7:11 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: venting:client centred therapy (**SA)
Replies: 2
Views: 77

When kids are little, I think it may be reasonable to blame the adults in their lives for how they behave. As they grow up, though, they become more and more responsible for how they behave. Eventually, they're adults. And no matter how much they were failed by the adults in their childhood, they ar...