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Post by danixcx » Thu Sep 08, 2005 10:56 pm

Hi, My grampa died nearlly 9months ago & i've started self-harming. But found I can't stop. The most i've lasted is 5days but it was sooo hard. I just want to cut constantly.
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Post by danixcx » Thu Sep 08, 2005 11:04 pm

Yeah. But. After 5days i cut again! I cant seem to stop now
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Post by leensie » Fri Sep 09, 2005 1:36 am

know the feeling. :wink:
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Post by Guest » Fri Sep 09, 2005 3:33 am

Hi danixcx! :wavey:

Welcome to BUS :cowsleep: :cowsleep: :cowsleep:

I am so sorry to hear about your grandpa. You will definitely find help & support here. But maybe you could also try to talk to someone professional, if you haven't already. The longer you do this, the harder it is to stop. Good luck!

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Post by pretty » Fri Sep 09, 2005 10:54 am

Hey, welcome to bus. Have a welcome cow: :cowsleep:

Stopping si is hard, really hard, but it's possible and it's more than worth the work. Quite a few of us have been where you are and made it through to coping with life without si. If we can make it, any one can ;)

It might help you to read some of the threads on this board, about ways to cope, distractions, and how other people have stopped. I hope you can find what you need here.

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