stupid little happy things

tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.

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Post by Oizys » Sun May 02, 2004 4:52 am

:star: Friends who listen and actually care
:star: Soap candies
:star: Being able to lock my bedroom door and suddenly be in my own world
:star: My journal, which is like a friend and hugs me and listens to me for as long as I need
:star: Candle light
:star: Comfy clothes that are like putting on a hug
:star: The comfortable mess in my room where everything is just as I like it, and *I* know where everything is
:star: The smell of clothes just out of the drier
:star: Reading everyone's happy things, and then remembering your own when you're feeling down.

Thanks for this thread!!!
Humanity cannot bear very much reality.
-T.S. Eliot

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Post by thatwackychick » Wed May 05, 2004 6:18 am

* dogs
* the first day when it's warm enough to wear shorts in the spring
* avacados

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Post by plantt » Mon May 17, 2004 11:53 pm

:grnstar: managing to get to work
:grnstar: getting errands done
:grnstar: choosing to call n *tell* t what had upset me in-session
:grnstar: feeling capable of getting through

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Post by ~invisible_me~ » Mon May 24, 2004 8:46 am

:star: true friends
:star: hugs
:star: walking through autumn leaves
:star: rainbows
:star: candles
:star: getting unexpected mail in post, email or pms
:star: hearing my favourite songs on radio

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Post by plantt » Mon May 24, 2004 8:15 pm

:grnstar: getting to work
:grnstar: a favority snuggly blanket
:grnstar: coffee
:grnstar: kitties

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Post by enna » Tue May 25, 2004 12:01 am

:star: Silence in the mornings.
:star: Cornflakes.
:star: My little brother.
:star: Getting to sleep in.
I'm tired of laughing and I'm tired of crying
Tired of failing and tired of all this trying
I want to do some living
Cause I've done enough dying
I just wanna dance
I just wanna f**king dance

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Post by plantt » Tue Jun 15, 2004 5:36 am

--went to work
--found out that the lady who's buying the apt building... isn't planning to change them... or increase rent
:grnstar:

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Post by Strange Glue » Sun Jun 20, 2004 1:24 am

:bluestar: Getting mail that is wonderful news
:cystar: Watching a movie that was a childhood favourite
:grnstar: A really great book
:bluestar: The perfect cup of tea to drink while reading the really great book
When faced with my demons
I clothe them and feed them
And I smile, yes I smile
As they're taking me over

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Post by (*Haven*) » Sun Jun 20, 2004 11:25 pm

:redstar: Getting something new that's Cher
:bluestar: Getting something new that's Alan Rickman
:purpstar: My kitty
:redstar: Having relpies on my place
:bluestar: Getting PMs
:purpstar: Writing in my journal....It's the only thing that truly listens.
:redstar: My T....For putting up with me.
:bluestar: Eatting uncooked storebought sugar cookie dough
:purpstar: New shoes
:redstar: Spending other people's money.....Like my parents.

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Post by plantt » Tue Jun 22, 2004 11:28 am

--that possibly t doesn't hate me... even after the past couple weeks
--it's not so hot as it was last night
--furry kitties
--believing that i can & will eventually get through all this
:grnstar:

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Post by Jude » Fri Jun 25, 2004 9:58 pm

:star: shopping and new things
:star: finding an outfit that actually works
:star: cute baby bunnies
:star: people being nice to me
:star: pasta in tomato sauce with grated cheese sprinkled on top
:star: getting texts from friends
:star: hugs

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Post by devil with angel wings » Mon Jun 28, 2004 1:18 am

-chocolate
-sponge monkeys!!!
-feeling like im part of a group
-hugs
-whenever i buy something from the guitar shop the guy gives me free pics
- :multi: this thing

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Post by plantt » Tue Jun 29, 2004 10:22 pm

:grnstar: yessssss chocolate!
:grnstar: finding cat at the airport
:grnstar: furry kitties
:grnstar: fully signing up for a class... & a teacher who seems nice

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Post by tattybluetrees » Wed Jun 30, 2004 11:19 am

:D getting into bed at four on a cold afternoon with a cup of tea and a trashy book
:D the moment when someone says just exactly the right thing
:D stewed apple
:D makig your own mohitos, just because you can
:D meeting someone really, really pretty and realising that they are also really, really boring
:D going to the seaside
:D pulling faces

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Post by anunseenhavoc » Wed Jun 30, 2004 6:46 pm

:star: Chocolate...sometimes
:star: thes ong 99 red balloons
:star: Rainy Days
:star: Drumming
:star: Hugs
:star: Kisses
:star: Someone saying the right thing at the right time
:star: feeling loved
:star: Finding things on sale
:star: getting a new cd
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"So now you're back on your feet again
Now you're back to compete with men
Now you're back and it took some time
To get from misery to prime
Now you're back here to change the world
Now you're back and I say "Go girl"
Now you're back and you'll do just fine
'cause after rainy days the sun will shine"-MILLENCOLIN




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Post by Arcadia » Wed Jun 30, 2004 9:35 pm

cuddles
crisps
sex
reading
clubbing, while sober
life-affirming music, like punk
shopping
making hairpieces
new hair extensions
phone calls

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things that make me happy

Post by greeneyes92 » Fri Jul 02, 2004 5:13 am

watching the sunset/rise
hot showers or baths
talking on the phone for hours
hot chocolate after being cold
an unexpected i love you
any i love you
hugs
seeing a show you love come on just as you sit down
watching home movies
making a home movie
looking over at someone just to find them looking at you
cake
man i love being happy i just wish i was more often
please remember this, when you drop your guard nobody has an unbreakable heart

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Post by plantt » Fri Jul 02, 2004 8:57 am

:grnstar: playing on toys at the park
:grnstar: playing on toys at the park in your jammies
:grnstar: getting ahold of your brother & having him agree to kittysit... & wanting to loan you money
:grnstar: having kitties snuggle
:grnstar: coffee :morning:

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Post by swirlish » Mon Jul 05, 2004 10:47 pm

Oh, just posting quick before bed, will be back later.

* The painkiller gel my mum that's actually working! Yay, not as many pills!
* Snuggly cats
* A warm cosy bed
* Working lamps
* Fruit and lots of it

Take care :P

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Post by fifibelle » Wed Jul 07, 2004 1:43 pm

:pinkheart: Being able to ring a friend and know they'll listen
:lavheart: Lieing in the Sun alone without hiding or fear that some one will stare
:purpheart: Little kittens
:pinkheart: Reading a bood book
:lavheart: Being inside during a storm
:purpheart: SHOPPING!

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