The *hoping* thread..

tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.

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The *hoping* thread..

Post by Licentia Poetica » Mon Apr 30, 2007 5:17 am

Kind of like the wishing thread, but hopefully more optimistic :wink:

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I hope I will love myself as myself one day.
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Post by Stellaria » Mon Apr 30, 2007 9:48 am

Sounds good. :)

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I hope I will one day believe that I have made some kind of difference to the world (even if only in little things)
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Post by Callisto » Mon Apr 30, 2007 11:46 am

Brilliant idea El :)

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I hope that one day I will love myself just as I am.

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Post by heliotropes » Mon Apr 30, 2007 4:11 pm

I hope that one day I will allow myself to achieve my full potential.

I hope that one day I will fall deeply and hopelessly(!?) in love with a man who loves me in return.
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Post by starcatuk » Mon Apr 30, 2007 6:01 pm

i wish that i wouldnt be so hard on myself and give myself some credit once in a while.

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Post by mywildrainbow » Tue May 01, 2007 3:44 am

i hope that one day i can call myself a survivor and honestly feel that way.

i hope that my mom and i will be able to have a strong relationship.

i hope that my neices and nephew NEVER have to endure many of the obstacles that i've had to overcome.

i hope that one day i will love myself for the wonderful, unique person others tell me i am.
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Post by one out of none » Tue May 01, 2007 7:06 pm

I hope that I can stay with my new boyfriend instead of running away from relationships like I usually do.

I hope that some day I will look back on everything that happened, and see it as a time in my life that shaped me into who I am, while realising that I am not a bad person and deserve some good things in life.

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Post by Callisto » Tue May 01, 2007 8:37 pm

I hope that one day my b/f will realise just how worthy of love he is.

I hope that one day I will be able to stop my mum dragging me down.

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Post by MusicalMorphine » Wed May 02, 2007 5:45 pm

I hope someday I will find someone right for me

I hope someday I will have friends I truely love

I hope someday I can be genuinely happy

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Post by there_is_hope » Thu May 03, 2007 7:57 pm

I hope that one day I will like myself and not wanting to change anything about me.
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Post by balletomane » Sat May 05, 2007 12:02 am

I hope I will get back into school.

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Post by xheylushx » Sun May 06, 2007 10:31 am

I hope one day I stop getting in the way of my own success

I hope I'll one day smile and really honestly and sincerely mean it

I hope I'll find someone that cares about me truly and deeply.

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Post by ++Jigsaw++ » Sun May 06, 2007 1:46 pm

I hope that one day i can talk about si in the past tense.

I hope one day to be proud of getting through it instead of being ashamed to be doing it.
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Post by wilson » Sun May 06, 2007 4:33 pm

i hope that she comes to her senses

i hope that one day i wont be living in the past like i do now
i hope one day i stop counting days cos it makes me feel worse
i hope one day i will be able to have a cival conversation with my parents.
i just hope...
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Post by powdahchica » Sun May 06, 2007 4:35 pm

I hope that I can settle down and feel happy about it.
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Post by Quiet little Angel » Sun May 06, 2007 5:42 pm

I hope one day i'll be able to trust another person fully...
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Post by Green Beauty » Sun May 06, 2007 9:01 pm

I hope my girlfriend will overcome her eating disorder.

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Post by daisy_chain » Mon May 07, 2007 12:15 pm

I hope A will realise that SU is not the way and see the good in himself.

I hope i can do the same.

I hope i can eventually accept who i am.
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Post by wilson » Wed May 09, 2007 8:34 am

i hope i actually go to my dr appt. to discuss my sleeping and depression
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Post by Callisto » Tue May 15, 2007 9:02 pm

i hope that one day i'll have self confidence

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