Does anyone else do this???

tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.

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Does anyone else do this???

Post by Unleash the Bats » Fri Jul 22, 2005 11:56 am

BAKE! i know this is mad, but ive only just reliezed that wen im down or something, i bake obsene amounts of cookies/browines etc etc. i dont no why, but i think it just completely take sur mind off stuff, and then u have the comfort food for after! anyone else do this? and ive realised that all my mates love me more if i bring them food lol.
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Post by Bathelina » Fri Jul 22, 2005 12:43 pm

Sometimes I do that, I just want cake or chocolate or brownies and if we don't have any I'll try and make some :oops:
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Post by mallie » Fri Jul 22, 2005 1:23 pm

I enjoy cooking like that, so it can be a perfect thing to do when feeling down. And, as you say, there is good yummy things for after, or if you're not up to eating them there are always people who are willing to accept home baked goodies.

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Post by Martin » Fri Jul 22, 2005 8:30 pm

I like making yummy stuff, but I usually don't think of it when I'm down...

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Post by Guest » Sun Jul 24, 2005 1:28 am

yes sometimes i do that too
and sometimes i tend to make things in excess

and sometimes i get an idea in my head to make something and obsess over it for days until i finnally go out and get the ingredients and make it

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Post by DecemberLivy » Sun Jul 24, 2005 10:16 am

i dont bake much (mostly because i cant cook lmao) but i do clean :o i keep cleaning and cleaning the whole house all day. my mum doesn't mind lol
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Post by Forget Me » Sun Jul 24, 2005 10:26 am

lol, i love baking! i like to make fudge and cookies and pasta.
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Post by DecemberLivy » Sun Jul 24, 2005 10:29 am

this thread is making me hungry lol :(
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Post by Tori1989 » Mon Jul 25, 2005 6:36 pm

Yeah, I do that sometimes too, I did it a couple of days ago infact. Really helps, unless I feel like i'm going to be triggered easily :-?
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Post by Tamrick » Mon Jul 25, 2005 7:44 pm

I haven't baked in ages (I think it would burn cause of all the interruptions) but this post makes me want to. I also like baking cause when you have finished you have made something (which never lasts long though)
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Post by reallycreamed » Wed Jul 27, 2005 6:10 pm

oh yeah, baking is the best. particularly baking bread, because you get to punch the crap out of the dough, which always makes me feel better.

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Post by Kaylee73 » Thu Jul 28, 2005 11:15 pm

Wow! I do this a lot and had no idea others baked for coping. :)

Sadly, I lose interest in the food immediately after making it and end up either throwing it out or giving it away.... :roll:
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Post by jaded melody » Fri Jul 29, 2005 12:07 am

Yeah me too its so theraputic!!

baking bread is especially good cause you have to knead it so much and you can punch it :D
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Post by limestone » Fri Jul 29, 2005 6:34 pm

nope but i love the idea. :star:

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Post by Unleash the Bats » Fri Aug 05, 2005 1:27 pm

DecemberLivy wrote:i dont bake much (mostly because i cant cook lmao) but i do clean :o i keep cleaning and cleaning the whole house all day. my mum doesn't mind lol
my room is freakishly tidy coz wen i need to take me of stuff i clean... 3 nights ago i was feeling quite down and started dusted my room at 12 at night... :roll:
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Post by snow » Thu Aug 11, 2005 6:17 am

Baking is a great distraction from immediate feelings - often if i start to feel down or out of control following the logical clear chocolate brownie instructions can be really soothing ( also the recipe never ever fails!)
i thought i was a weirdo for baking lots of stuff when i felt down but it looks like lots of others do it too.
its good to offer to people afterwards too, being generous and the appreciation of other people can really give you a boost...
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I do that too

Post by majic » Thu Aug 11, 2005 9:33 am

I bake and then proceed to eat all of what I made, which has been know to include two large cakes. I also clean. I clean everything, everywhere, when I get really down. Everything has to be just so.

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Post by Unleash the Bats » Thu Aug 11, 2005 10:20 am

some times i wont sleep til my room is clean- i dont have an ocd about it but i like evything tidied away
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Post by reach » Thu Aug 11, 2005 11:38 am

i LOVE baking!
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Post by ___fashioninjection » Thu Aug 11, 2005 12:01 pm

i do that. well i used to but then we moved and i don't like the cooker here *sulks*

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