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thanks. i added him.

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<b>Last Updated: 15/07/2006</b> by Seradjernie <hr> Administrative Staff On BUS there are three administrative levels of rule interpretation: deb, the admins, and the mods. Each of these have their own abilities and responsibilities. deb I'm deb . I take responsibility for the way the board is run, ...

PLEASE email emergncy@busmail.org right away.

things like debug mode errrors are usually pretty simple to fix, but i may have to run queries on the database to do it. if you text me, i can have it cleared up sooner. thanks!

deb

write down the shadow that's hiding behind the urge. look at it. ask yourself: how will this situation or feeling change if i hurt myself? what will hurting myself bring to the situation? what will it take away from the situation? how do i want to feel about this in the long run? is hurting myself l...

These questions were written quite a long time ago, and are the same as those you'll find on the Before & After forum. If you're looking for feedback on your answers, to help you work through your urges, it is worth posting over there. It can be hard work, but be very useful in working out what is ...

Why do I feel I need to hurt myself? What has brought me to this point? Have I been here before? What did I do to deal with it? How did I feel then? What I have done to ease this discomfort so far? What else can I do that won't hurt me? How do I feel right now? How will I feel when I am hurting mys...

These questions were written quite a long time ago, and are the same as those you'll find on the Before & After forum. If you're looking for feedback on your answers, to help you work through your urges, it is worth posting over there. It can be hard work, but be very useful in working out what is ...

i just added a whole bunch of new avatars -- i don't remember who gave them to me, cause they were in a directory i thought i'd emptied. fantasy -- a unicorn gathering animals -- a cow, a raccoon, and a kitty w/plant (the kitty from angelafree) angels/fairies -- four new eclectic2 -- 16 new, includi...

24 new avatars in the anime section, thanks to fuyumi and shell. fuyumi also gave us one in the famous people section of yoshiki, the "song-writer, pianist and drummer in X-Japan."

there's 1 new in animals (a hamster inside a pumpkin) and two new in eclectic2, all from bbmaru.

thanks!

deb

Ai42 wrote:Hey what about Macs?

there's a browser for the mac called omniweb that does spell checking in forms as you type.

deb

yeah, please. try avatars@busmail.org

deb

thanks to jessica and catrina, there are now even more public avatars: in landscapes, 4 new ones in fairies/angels, 1 new one in famous people, 9 new: 1 harry potter 1 frodo 1 legolas 2 auron 1 kimhari 1 lulu 1 rikku 1 tidus in eclectic2, 7 new: 4 fractals 1 shiva 1 earth in an infinity symbol 1 coo...

jessica sent me some public ones back in september, and i've finally gotten them up. animals - cat face, dolphin, 2 different wolves eclectic 2 - peace sign fairies_angels - 1 fairy fantasy - 1 (gorgeous) pegasus head famous_people - a great new eeyore i'm really happy when people send avatars for p...

i tried drawing on where i want to cut w/ marker and pen a couple of really hard nights. it kept me from cutting but it got on my clothes!!! so i stopped doing that. any ideas? has anyone else tried this? lip liner or lipstick might work. red food coloring would be kinda messy. a ball-point pen wou...

i'm going to split it in two, cause i had different things for what i thought of as passive bad feelings making me want to hurt myself (sad, ashamed, humiliated, etc) and active ones (anger would be a huge one in that category). in no particular order... active: 1. tearing up newspaper or a phone bo...

i was thinking about all the people who are getting their self-harm under control or stopped, and i realized it would be excellent to have an item where they could share what kinds of coping things they do instead of the si -- sort of like those "my anti-drug is..." commercials.

anyone?

love,
deb