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I know.
If you see it as that big a deal then deactivate.
I have my own reasons for preferring deletion.
Either's acceptable though *shrugs*

don't want to explain here. not in this forum nor through pm.
figured if it was a public request then anyone who noticed my absence would know that it was by choice.
& people can email if they want.

delete my account please.
thanks

glad the new groups are going well for ya

aww maybe your boyfriend & you could discuss things that might make it easier for him to talk with you first?

hope your evening goes well

ahh, ok :) could you plan something "bigger" for a longer-term reward? I know several people who've used getting a tattoo for a longer-term reward. maybe find small rewards that work for you & think through to how it could be a longer-term thing too? e.g. bubblebath for 1 day.... a new pretty nice-s...

I'm a bit confused... could you explain a bit more about what you mean & what sorts of replies you're looking for?

What are you watching?

have you found ways of reminding yourself to Not do those behaviors... put things in place that might help you notice? e.g. maybe wear a hat? fix your hair a different way? carry something small in your hands? consciously ask yourself "where are my hands? am I upset?" at random times.... etc I used ...

might be one reason to look at the coping board & come up with some ideas of how to not self-harm & instead use some of the ideas posted here

have you & your therapist talked about ways of dealing with your mom?

what movie did you watch?

lol Ok That makes perfect sense now!
Most people use "after" to mean "after I hurt myself" & I was rather stumped as to which bit of the post was the positive part

Glad you made it through

had wondered where you'd disappeared to

I'm curious as to why you put "positive" in the subject line. What about this experience was positive for you?

one of my cousins had a back brace... hers was temporary, too.
as was already said... I think it's more common now to have one temporarily... to Prevent things from becoming permanent...

I vote "other"

could you write & then destroy that writing later? I want to feel free from this issue --what issue do you mean? how else could you deal with the tension you're feeling? what's causing the tension? are there things you could do to deal with the cause? how can you deal with fear? have you checked the...