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- Sat Jun 10, 2006 11:42 am
- Forum: coping
- Topic: Right now I feel...
- Replies: 2081
- Views: 41548
- Fri Jun 09, 2006 10:56 pm
- Forum: coping
- Topic: Right now I feel...
- Replies: 2081
- Views: 41548
- Fri Jun 09, 2006 10:54 pm
- Forum: administrivia and technical support
- Topic: Can I change my user name?
- Replies: 1
- Views: 185
Can I change my user name?
Just wondering if thats possible - theres a chance people I know are going to find this site and I'd rather I didn't have my real name as my user name. If I can, could I change it to 'Wandering'?
Thanks!
Thanks!
- Sun Jan 01, 2006 3:18 am
- Forum: coping
- Topic: "cutting season"
- Replies: 24
- Views: 1072
Just do what I've done - follow summer round the world!!! I had the American summer, left there in september and have come to New zealand for their summer, then in May when autumn rolls round I'm going home to Britain for that summer (well if you can call the British summer 'summer'...lol). A year a...
- Fri Dec 30, 2005 8:47 am
- Forum: coping
- Topic: *triggers, nastyness, please dont read if your not prepared*
- Replies: 9
- Views: 458
- Fri Oct 21, 2005 2:49 am
- Forum: before and after
- Topic: Before
- Replies: 2
- Views: 61
Hello. I hope you've held on. It doesn't sound like you're in an easy place, but it does sound like you have a good grip on the consequences of if you do SI - you seem to have thought it all through a lot. I just need to get everything out somehow, have some release which is usually my cutting. What...
- Fri Oct 21, 2005 2:41 am
- Forum: before and after
- Topic: another before
- Replies: 2
- Views: 67
Hey, hope you're still coping that's just it. I DON'T WANT TO FEEL ANYMORE Why don't you want to feel any more? Because its too hard feeling those feelings? Maybe you could try and look at doing some things that get those feelings out so they're more dealt with, rather than just distracting you from...
- Thu Oct 20, 2005 3:55 am
- Forum: before and after
- Topic: Struggling (again)
- Replies: 3
- Views: 88
Thankyou for the replies. They have given me some things to think through. I didn't make it, unfortunately, and even worse, I guess, is that it gave me the exact relief I was hoping for. But I can't go through this cycle forever, so while I'm feeling in a better place, I'm going to try to look over ...
- Tue Oct 18, 2005 8:28 am
- Forum: before and after
- Topic: Struggling (again)
- Replies: 3
- Views: 88
Struggling (again)
how will this situation or feeling change if i hurt myself? It won't. Well maybe it will temporarily, but I'll come back to the same place again. what will hurting myself bring to the situation? what will it take away from the situation? It will give me a focus. It will, if I'm being frank, make me ...
- Wed Jun 01, 2005 10:37 pm
- Forum: before and after
- Topic: before... updated with after
- Replies: 2
- Views: 62
Sorry you didn't make it through, hope you're feeling ok. Really talking to Pam, there is so much I want to get out, but I won't let myself pull down my tough and independent front. I could have also called my T, that might have helped, but I have never been able to bring myself to do it, because ot...
- Wed Jun 01, 2005 10:29 pm
- Forum: before and after
- Topic: before
- Replies: 4
- Views: 107
None of those would really last though. Well, telling someone might, which is why I don't want to. I don't want to be talked out of it. Ok, they might not last long term, but they will get you through the next minute/hour/day. Keep doing things and you'll find all those short bits of time add up. W...
- Fri May 27, 2005 10:34 pm
- Forum: before and after
- Topic: What this forum is for
- Replies: 18
- Views: 13493
lol that reminded me - someone suggested to me earlier that I should go and try posting in the Before and After forum :-) Yeah - its a good point though - some people have a knack for posting in the right kinda way. I wonder if some people get put off by the fact that they have to apply to be given ...
- Wed May 25, 2005 10:09 pm
- Forum: before and after
- Topic: afterrrr
- Replies: 4
- Views: 123
Hey. I'm sorry you've had a bad day. I hope you're feeling a bit calmer and more clear about things. Did you go to your therapy session? I think really the main issue was the drinking, yeh? It certainly sounds like it was a major thing that pushed you towards SI. Why did you decide to drink today? C...
- Wed May 25, 2005 9:51 pm
- Forum: before and after
- Topic: after
- Replies: 2
- Views: 120
relieving the anxiety and anger to some extent... If writing and drawing doesn't work at times, maybe try some other coping methods. Why do you think SI works for you? You say its not about the pain, so what is it? If you can work out to some extent why it is effective at relieving those emotions, ...
- Wed May 25, 2005 9:37 pm
- Forum: before and after
- Topic: What this forum is for
- Replies: 18
- Views: 13493
- Tue May 24, 2005 10:49 pm
- Forum: before and after
- Topic: before
- Replies: 5
- Views: 122
- Tue May 24, 2005 10:21 pm
- Forum: coping
- Topic: Coping is... [add on]
- Replies: 18
- Views: 615
For me right now, coping is clutching onto that rope that is the only thing stopping me falling back down the cliff. It is holding on for the chance that maybe one day it'll all get a little easier and the sun will come out from behind the clouds. It's taking each minute as it comes, hoping that if ...
- Tue May 24, 2005 9:51 pm
- Forum: before and after
- Topic: before
- Replies: 5
- Views: 122
Hey. I know this is a bit late, but I'm guessing you'll be in similar situations again, so here's some more thoughts :wink: i'll probably cry, i need to cry though i need a way to let go of things..to get it out i need to hurt and bleed but mostly just hurt. Ok, well it is possible to learn to cry, ...
- Tue May 24, 2005 7:24 pm
- Forum: before and after
- Topic: A before
- Replies: 6
- Views: 139
one thing that works at times for me... when my own reasons give out... is to hold on to knowing that other people still believe that si'ing is not the best option... that they believe that getting si out of my life is really going to be best... Yep - those kind of things tend to be my main reasons...