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by WhiteChocolate
Mon May 22, 2006 5:22 am
Forum: administrivia and technical support
Topic: What mods and admins can do
Replies: 4
Views: 554

what are "ombudsmen"
by WhiteChocolate
Sun Apr 30, 2006 10:28 pm
Forum: before and after
Topic: *Before*
Replies: 3
Views: 116

Did you try going for a walk? If so, how did it help? When you are tense, what does SI offer you? Is it a sense of control? A powerful distraction? etc. What other activities can offer you those same things? It might take several activities to help you release your anxiety rather than just one. als...
by WhiteChocolate
Sun Apr 30, 2006 4:17 am
Forum: before and after
Topic: *Before*
Replies: 3
Views: 116

*Before*

Before •how will this situation or feeling change if i hurt myself? Feeling: the tension will ease and Situation: in the big picture a lot may change a could be sent back to a place that i don'tt really want to go to. •what will hurting myself bring to the situation? what will it take away from the ...
by WhiteChocolate
Wed Apr 26, 2006 6:30 am
Forum: before and after
Topic: My 1st Before
Replies: 4
Views: 159

Hi WhiteChocolate, hey So you've stopped si-ing from fear, rather than because you feel you're ready, yes? Just want to make sure I've understood you properly. yea you understood properly but now that i am thinking about it more and now that i have made a list of thing i would benifit from if i sto...
by WhiteChocolate
Sat Apr 15, 2006 2:20 am
Forum: before and after
Topic: My 1st Before
Replies: 4
Views: 159

Hi WhiteChocolate, Question for you. You talk a lot about your success or failure in terms of a self-injury free record, but why have you stopped? don't quite understand the question. I talk alot about failures because i am a negative thinker. I have not hurt myself yet i am just really questioning...
by WhiteChocolate
Fri Apr 14, 2006 5:39 am
Forum: before and after
Topic: My 1st Before
Replies: 4
Views: 159

My 1st Before

Before •how will this situation or feeling change if i hurt myself? what situation ...well bug pictures situation dramatically this is my 3rd week before having 7 months si free so it will change dramatically the negative emotions would be there after a few mins or hours. •what will hurting myself b...
by WhiteChocolate
Sun Mar 19, 2006 7:56 am
Forum: coping
Topic: rubber bands as coping tools
Replies: 11
Views: 377

Re: rubber bands as coping tools

all of us have heard of the idea of snapping a rubber band on our wrists to stop us from cutting.... or at least for lessening the urge... but for me... i think it does just as much harm as the cutting. Not only does it leave welts... it bruises... and it has also bled before...is this really any b...
by WhiteChocolate
Mon Mar 13, 2006 6:21 am
Forum: administrivia and technical support
Topic: Question(about pictures) Help
Replies: 2
Views: 361

Question(about pictures) Help

How do i post pictures on here? i have already uploaded them on to my computer now i just need to figure out how to get them in the message? can some one tell me how please.
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by WhiteChocolate
Sun Feb 19, 2006 12:36 am
Forum: coping
Topic: Scarily VAST list of coping strategies
Replies: 126
Views: 62147

I just wanna say i am very aprreciative of this list i will print out all 20 some pages of it..


----Thanx

-----------Jamie